Dear Dr. [Ruth Westheimer]: I want to thank you for saying that if you don't like to do certain things, don't force yourself. In particular, I have never liked oral sex. In the first place, I'd rather look into the eyes and face of my dear one than into his thrashing genitals. Also, as an R.N., I know that even after scrubbing for 10 minutes, germs can still be found on the surface of the skin, which is why we all wear gloves in the operating room.